• Jin

    Jin Baek

    Aurora, CO
    Biology and Chemistry (Pre-Med)

    Jin's Bio:
    Hi, there! I'm Jin, and I am a passionate, talkative, dessert fanatic. Poems, good books, coconut water, and action movies make me happy. If we ever meet in person, you'll definitely hear me before you see me. You'll want to ask how many energy drinks I've had, but the answer will always be zero.

  • Malvern Madondo

    Harare, Zimbabwe
    Mathematics & Computer Science

    Laila Zemar

    Casablanca, Morocco
    Biochemistry, Biology and Pre-med

    Jin Baek

    Aurora, CO
    Biology and Chemistry (Pre-Med)

    Halle Nystrom

    Graduate Student
    Fargo, ND
    M.S. Health Information Management

  • Brooke Elvehjem

    Mora, MN

    Bryan Chavez

    Richfield, MN
    Accounting and Finance

    Daniela Moreno Gomez

    San Salvador, El Salvador
    Computer Information Systems and Finance

    Shivani Singh

    Mumbai, India
    Management & Marketing

  • Takudzwa Munjanja

    Gweru, Zimbabwe
    Health Information Management, CIS minor

    Yael Ikoba-Ndjip

    Brussels, Belgium
    Accounting Major; Finance minor

    Katelyn Gehling

    East Bethel, MN
    Exercise Physiology for Pre-Physical Therapy

    Shauney Moen

    Graduate Student
    Oak Grove, MN
    Doctorate of Physical Therapy

  • Jason Chavez

    Minneapolis, MN
    Psychology, Organizational Behavior, and Social Work

    Kathryn McCarrick

    Saint Paul, MN
    Elementary Education

    Neena Koslowski

    Apple Valley, MN

    Conrado Eiroa Solans

    Madrid, Spain
    Psychology Major, Biology minor

  • Laura Salazar

    Bogotá, Colombia
    Marketing and Business Management

A Reflection on Friendship

When I think back to my high school days, the one thing that sticks out to me (when I ignore the harsh memories of hormonal imbalances and thinking I was all grown up and had my life figured out) is the group of best friends that I had. My high school friends kept me sane throughout the monotonous daily life of a high school career, and I sure had a lot of them.

I remember I had so many friends in every single class, and I would see them all the time and I knew their names and we would sometimes even eat lunch together, and eventually, my classmates became my friends. Those I grew closer to became my best friends. And my friends in high school were so important to me for so many reasons.

When I came to college, I realized that friendship looks different here.

My classes are usually 20-30 students total, which is very similar to my high school class sizes, and the bigger lectures have around 50-70 students in my experience. But in college, I don’t find myself trying to make friends with every single person I sit next to in every single class that I have. Most of the time, I don’t even know the name of the person sitting next to me, nevermind eat lunch with them. Group members go back to being strangers after the project is turned in. Lab partners become vaguely familiar faces in the hallway. Classmates become nothing more than just that–classmates. Friendships aren’t forged everywhere we go.

Unfortunately, there isn’t enough time.

I hold onto the handful of people that I trust and care about, and I spend whatever time I can with them when I’m done being busier than I ever thought I could be.

But what’s special about those few real friendships that I have in college is that they will most likely be lifelong friendships in the end.

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